Location

If you are hosting a party at your home you probably won’t need security as long as you aren’t making a public spectacle of the event and inviting strangers. If you are having the party at a location where strangers may show up, or are planning a large event, then security will be necessary. Many couples won’t go to a swinger’s meet where there is no security.

Type Of Event

If you are planning a very large event for the community at large, security is a must. You won’t know all the guests in attendance, and you’ve probably advertised the meet in a few places where anyone can see. Swingers are a very safe group of people, but there are some that will masquerade as a swinger and stir up trouble. You don’t want the event to be overrun with single guys just looking for fun, or others who may not understand the lifestyle. You also need to ensure the safety of everyone at the event, and having security posted will ensure that nothing gets out of hand.

Hiring Security

You can typically hire private security for these events for relatively low costs. Many security companies are open-minded and they will adhere to all the rules you put forward for the event. It’s better going with a private company than just relying on friends.

Private

Some people prefer to keep their private home private. They may not feel comfortable having a lot of people that they do not know in their home or know where they live. This is something that is common whenever they have a family and do not want their family home involved in what they do for their sexual hobbies or activities. Renting out a house just for swinger’s parties can help to keep your sexual life separate from your home life.

Neighbours

A lot of people have nosy neighbors. This is something that can become an issue whenever you have to deal with them wanting to know why so many people come over to your house and stay all through the night. They may also begin to get very nosy and try to see what is going on.

Room

It can be difficult to fit a lot of people into your home. Your home may not be large enough or you may just have too much furniture that can get in the way. You will find that by simply having a bed or two or even a pallet can really be all you need.

Rooms And Suites

All rooms include coffee and tea, large closets, and most rooms have showers. A few of the rooms do not have shower facilities, but they can be found just outside the room. The suites have enough room to sleep 2-4 adults, and the single rooms feature a twin sized bed and a couch.  The Penthouse suite is fully appointed, featuring high end furniture with a swanky décor. A lounge area complete with a bar, seating for up to 12 adults, and a large bed make it perfect for parties.

Parties

Hotel Serenity is available all week long, but only hosts parties on Friday and Saturday nights. Bank holidays the party is open on Thursday or Sunday night as well (depending on what day the holiday falls). Single men are welcomed at all events, but they are admitted only in limited numbers. It’s recommended that single men phone ahead to book a spot. If you are a guest at the hotel your admission to the party is covered. Otherwise, an admission fee will be collected. The fee for the parties varies depending on what the event is. Special events, such as holiday balls and bashes may be more expensive. You can check their schedule of events online for rate information.

Hotels

If you live near a swingers or hedonist hotel, it would be a great idea to book the venue for your next event. This is the perfect place because they will already have all the amenities that swingers enjoy, and the staff is obviously going to be open to any kind of activity. While this is the most costly route, if you plan on having a large enough party you can simply charge the other couples a small admission fee to help offset the cost associated.

Clubs

Another good place to host a swinger’s social event is at a swingers club. Most clubs are willing to work with you regarding renting the venue as long as it doesn’t interfere with other parties they have planned. The costs will sometimes include security, but other times you may have to pay extra for a full staff. The benefit of using a club is that it’s a secure location that is ready for play.

Renting Homes Or Hotels

Another idea is to rent a home or hotel suite for smaller social events. You will need to take care to ensure you don’t end up inviting more people than capacity will allow, and you may want to invest in outside security since it is a social event.

All Are Welcome

The Fun House is open to all types of people and swingers. They will host BBW parties, BDSM themed events, and other Fetish groups. On nights without a theme they don’t discriminate and have an ‘anything goes’ policy, as long as it doesn’t involve violence or drugs. The Fun House offers a large playroom, a dungeon room, and can even perform Chinese rope work shows.

Admittance

Unlike other clubs, you have to have a relationship with the staff to get invited. This just means you can’t walk in off the street. You will need to either meet the owners first socially, or at the very least call ahead. If you are booking a room you will need to make a deposit at the time of booking. You can pay the remaining balance when you arrive. If you need to cancel you should do so as early as possible to avoid a cancellation fee. As long as they are able to fill your slot they will not charge a cancellation fee.

Meals And Drinks

The Fun House is not licensed, but you are free to provide your own alcohol. Guests of the hotel will be served a meal around 7pm on Fridays and Saturday nights.

Swingers Hotels

It’s not uncommon to find hotels that cater to swingers near different swingers clubs. Some clubs even offer accommodations for a limited number of people. This is the easiest way to find a place to stay after any kind of club event. Many swinger’s hotels operate as a bed and breakfast, providing dinner and breakfast to overnight guests.

Swinger Friendly Hotels

While a swinger’s hotel is going to be the most open experience, you can also find hotels that are swinger friendly. This means they won’t allow for swinging activities in the common areas, but won’t give you grief about bringing the party to your room. You will need to consider people staying in the rooms surrounding you though as not all the guests will be as open as the staff.

Private Homes

If you’re at a swinger’s party you may find people who are willing to continue the party at their home with a limited number of people. Those who have houses large enough for this will also sometimes allow people they know to stay with them overnight. You generally have to be a regular swinger with these folks to get invited back, but it’s always a good option to have.

Rooms

They have room for up to 46 couples in their on site hotel rooms. All rooms are suites large enough for up to 4 people. The rooms are decorated classically and not cheap and swanky like many others. Every weekend stay includes meals. Dinner is served on Friday nights to guests, and breakfast and dinner to Saturday guests. Breakfast is served on Sundays and Mondays.

Parties

The Devonism hotel hosts parties through out the year. Most weekends are devoted to standard swinger’s parties, but they do host larger bashes for special events. For instance, the Christmas and New Years parties always have a theme, and are typically black tie events. Other special events are hosted through out the year, and you can check their website for information on these.

Booking

Since the hotel can only accommodate a certain number of guests, booking in advance is suggested. You can find the number to ring the hotel for information on booking. The rates vary based on the type of suite and the time of year, as well as the number of people and length of your stay. They may also charge a cancellation fee if they are unable to rebook your room.

Parties

Friday and Saturday nights are dedicated to couples play. If you are a hotel guest the cost of the party is included with your stay. If you are going to the party only, there is an admission charge. Since weekends are dedicated to couples play, single men aren’t admitted. However, men can enjoy the festivities during the week with no issue.

Rooms

The rates for rooms vary based on the occupancy and the time of the week. Friday through Sunday is £120 for the full weekend, or £65 per night for each couple. During holidays the rate goes up to £159 for the weekend. During the week the rates are £40 per room, regardless if it’s a couple or a single. Other rates are available as well, you can phone for more information. The hotel only has 14 suites available, so it’s a good idea to book well in advance.

Amenities

Paradise in Blackpool operates as a bed and breakfast environment. They offer a complete bar, full dining room, and a lounge area. The hotel is no smoking, however, a covered terrace at the back of the hotel is used as a smoking area. Each room has a well appointed television system, and Wi-Fi access available with the cost of the room booking.

Parties

The hotel is open all week long, but they have weekend parties for swingers. The parties start at 9pm and last until the last person decides to go to bed. Parties are held on Friday and Saturday nights, and occasionally on Sundays when enough people have booked.

Accommodations

Buddies Hotel has several packages available for swingers. They have a few singles rooms available for single men and women, but you will need to call ahead to check availability. Couples can book single nights that include breakfast, weekend accommodations, or three night specials. Rates start at £50 and go up to £90.

Bar

One of the best reasons to use a swinger’s friendly hotel over a swingers club is the licensing requirements are different for hotels. Buddies carries a full alcohol license, and is therefore able to have a fully stocked bar. The drinks are priced reasonably, and bar is open until 1am.

Beauty Services

One of the things that make Buddies unique is the full service beauty center. Here you can be treated to the latest hair styles, nail art, and facials. They even offer waxing, including Brazilian and other intimate waxes. This is the perfect way to get ready for a great party. You will need to make an appointment to book your services, but you will enjoy the special attention you receive.

Find A Location

If you don’t want to use your home, you can always find a hotel that is open minded and caters to swingers. This way you can give everyone a neutral location to meet. You may be able to get the other couples you are inviting to chip in for the cost of the venue rental. You can also find local swingers clubs that will allow you to do this. Just note that doing this will almost always require that you host your event during the week, as weekends are big money makers for them. If you are hosting a small event, you can rent a hotel suite instead of using your home.

Inviting People

Decide how large or small you want your event to be. A private hosted party is typically most fun when it’s kept smaller. Most people choose to stick with 5 or 6 couples including you and your partner. This way it can still be kept intimate but large enough to party. It’s also important to remember that you may not get as many RSVP’s as you invite. You may want to plan for this and have a few couples you can invite as a back up.

Be Prepared

Once you have a date set up and know how many couples will attend, you can begin to stock up on supplies. If you’re at a club or hotel, find out what they include. You will want towels, robes, condoms, lubricants, and snacks and beverages. You can always request that your guests bring their own toiletries and alcohol.